Yep, definitely my age, but I feel something’s being missed here, I’ve had my share of one night stands too, but it was with the (perhaps naive) belief that we weren’t dating someone else at the same time.
They are getting to know the other person and sex is part of that
Personally, I think people are potentially missing out on letting something more develop if you’re on to the next person or sex that quickly, just my opinion obviously. But if it makes you happy and noone is getting hurt, so be it!
Yep, definitely my age, but I feel something’s being missed here, I’ve had my share of one night stands too, but it was with the (perhaps naive) belief that we weren’t dating someone else at the same time.
They are getting to know the other person and sex is part of that
Personally, I think people are potentially missing out on letting something more develop if you’re on to the next person or sex that quickly, just my opinion obviously. But if it makes you happy and noone is getting hurt, so be it!
I guess in comparison to your generation think of it as faster dating, instead of waiting for 3 months to find you aren’t compatible, you find out within 3 weeks.
I think this is much better, life is too short to spend it with people that seemed great at the time but when you finally get to know them after months and months of dating you find out they aren’t for you.
I guess it also comes down to how many potential dates you have available to you, with Tinder there are many which means you have a much higher chance of finding the perfect partner, but if you spend 6 months with each person.. you could miss out.
I was in the same boat if so to speak, after divorcing a relationship with baggage for 9+ years or so.
I’ve used online dating before getting into the prior relationship and not much has changed; but in terms of dating etiquette it depends on the social generation, your age, maturity and cultural versus contemporary values. But I’m sure there is a great deal of other factors involved that would change what would be ideal and what wouldn’t.
I started dating again, went through sites such as RSVP and Zoosk. I’ve had much more luck with Zoosk than I’ve had with RSVP. in terms of talking to women and dating them as well.
The most that I have ever dated in one day. 3 or 4; and in a week. hmm, 6 to 8.
I think the exclusivity starts when there is a greater than normal level of chemistry, the intimacy that starts to follow in almost every single outing as well as the « between the sheets » experiences. I would say that in my ethical viewpoint, it ticks the box as being exclusive.
It became rather clear when the female starts asking more personal questions about whether you’ve seen other people; talked to others on the specified dating websites; and also start asking about your daily habits. it is a tell-tale sign when it shows you’re pretty much off-limits.
I had to do that recently, and told another female. well and old fling if so to speak; and just indicated that I was seeing some one and we shouldn’t go towards an intimate direction. Perhaps, not in so many words, we hugged and I went my merry way.
I’ve seen this female twice a weekly mostly and I could tell that she is really into me on an emotional and intellectual level. and recently more so on a physical level as well.